Lo is the most perfect human beings were created compared with those of other creatures, including Angels, Jinn, Satan, the Beast, dllnya. But we himself as a man does not know or do not know of ourselves as human beings. In this life we \u200b\u200boften make many mistakes. What are the mistakes often made but fatal?
1. Blaming others
That disease P and K, which is primitive and childish. Blaming others is a primitive mindset of people . In rural Africa, if there are people who are sick, the Think is: Who ya who nyantet? Always the "who" not "what" the cause. Modern medical science is always finding out "what" is why, instead of "whom". So if we think blaming someone else, that same primitive manner. Use koteka aja deh, do not have to wear a tie and jacket.
childish. Why? The kids always do not ever want to be blamed. If there are dishes that fall, "Brother tuh wrong", or "tuh mbak wrong." You wear pants monkey wrote that to be so. If we humans are intelligent and mature always be looking for something to happen.
2. Blaming yourself
Blaming himself that he felt can not afford. This is different from RECOGNISING ERRORS. You never experienced it? If you say never, you're lying. "Ah, hell he can, he's an expert, he had a job, he's talented, etc., Lha me what this is?, Wow, I can not deh. She S3, LHA my junior high school, can not deh wah. He's got a lot of time, I was busy, deh certainly can not. " This disease such as cancer, added a big, big inside ourselves mentally so that it can achieve "improper feeling guilty."
So even though the wrong partners, subordinates, superiors or even, dare to say "I'm really that is wrong, etc. can not afford." This disease can slowly kill us. Feel inferior, we do not have the capability. We often compare the success of others with our shortcomings, so that the success of others is considered fair because they have something more that we do not have.
3. Do not have a goal / goals
We often fixated with the busy work, but its direction is unclear. We should always have a job with a milestone target. Create a long-term targets and short-term in writing. Illustration like this: There dog ran an arrogant rooster. What the heck can not I chase, losing the same horse I wrote. Then there is the bunny jumping, kiclik, kiclik, kiclik. His friend says: "Well there tuh rabbit, chase wrote."
He chased the rabbit, wesss ...., Rabbits run faster, insisted his dog chase and mascara-running rabbit ears (to not hear / care about anything), and finally not overtaken, rabbit into the fence. Dog returned to his friend and diketawain.
"Ah lu, he said good run, the same can not chase a rabbit wrote. He said most taut lu."
"he Lha goalnya hell to stay alive, survive, LHA cave for fun aja goalnya hell."
If "GOAL" we just for "FUN", contents of the time wrote, yes the results are just panting.
4. Have a "goal", but inconsequential achieve
Usually experienced by those who are not "teachable." Goalnya wrong, our focus is also wrong, way too wrong, too wrong direction. Illustration like this: there are young people who are obsessed with gold, because the influence of traditions that deify gold. This young man went to the shops and filling his sack with gold and casually ngeloyor go. Of course, the police arrested and questioned. The answer: The point I want gold, I do not want to see left-right.
5. Taking a short cut, short cut
Success is never passed to the shortcut. Shortcuts do not bring people to the real success, real success, because it does not follow the process. If we avoid the process, do not mature, even if cooked yes dikarbit. So, there is no shortcut tuh. Indonesian badminton players woke up at 5 am, running around Senayan, do smesh 1000 times. That's not a shortcut.
No one is careless, inattentive every day wear gloves, keep all of a sudden a champion badminton. Nothing! If you were told to put $ 1 million, in 3 weeks so 3 million, it makes sense not that? No way!. Because it is against nature.
6. Taking a road too long, too relaxed
this analogy: The plane can fly for take-off, must have a minimum speed. The Boeing 737, to be able to take-off, requiring a minimum speed of 300 km / hour. If the speed he was just 50 km / hour, yes only ngabis ngabisin aviation fuel-aja, aja muter-muter. Lha that way, runwaynya straight you just use the speed of 50 km / h, ya can not take-off, even nyungsep yes. Yeah right?
7. Ignoring little things
He wants big, the splashy, but not tiny dikerjain. He forgot that the structure of a large building, there must be a small component. I wish great aja. Ignoring little things aja not allowed, let alone ignore the little people.
8. Too fast surrender
9. Shadows of the past
once poetic Wow, I like to do with this. For what? We are always full of memory right? What we do, enter our memory, at least as our consideration for our next step. Moreover, if we ever fail, do not dare to try again. It could be back again to the number of disease-3. Failure as a result of the shadows of the past are not resolved properly.
That negative shadow. Our memory is sometimes very limited us to move forward. We sometimes forget that life go on. "Time" was developed right?. There is no way that a clock is upside down? Nothing right?
Everything forward, life is advanced. Aja ran forward, even if it should fall, surely the future really. People who succeed, it must never fail. That's a negative memory that prevents success.
10. Hypnotize yourself with success pseudo
Also called Pseudo Success Syndrome. We are hypnotized by it. If we ever managed with little success, and then stop, do not go anywhere lagi.Sudah satisfied with such small success. Napoleon once stated: "When the most dangerous to come together with a great victory." That's when the most dangerous, because people careless, drunken victory. Do not get stuck with goal-a goal small results, because we will shoot a large target, a distant goal. Do not be complacent, Ntar so arrogant, kept arrogant.
It is time for us to improve our lives. The opportunity is wide open for anyone who wants to move forward.
Action May not always bring success, but there is no success without action.
"Business and the action does not always result in success / success, but ... There is no success and the success WITHOUT effort and action."
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